真的很巧，
這趟旅程當中的一些對話，
讓我的腦海浮現一個問題：
為什麼"社會期待"對個體的影響是如此的無遠弗屆?
所謂"常模"的影響力似乎並不受國界、民族、族群而減低!
回來後也開學了，
在Health survey的課裡，
老師跟我們玩了一個好玩的小測驗－
THE MARLOWE-CROWNE SOCIAL DESIRABILITY SCALE
結果還挺能解釋為何我會有這個疑問浮現，
而其他大部分的人則很能將此視為"理所當然"，
因為他們可能都是企業篩選任用時所謂的"好人(good person)"。
但其實老師鼓勵我們不要過度的以社會期待為完全的思考依歸，
否則無法發揮自我與創造力，
我想太守規矩可能也會無法很快樂吧?
還是其實如果完全甘於依循規範而行，
既使是簡單的完成日常作息也會很快樂呢?
對你什麼是重要的?
什麼是你成就與快樂的來源?
先找到這個答案，
然後就開始去追尋你的快樂吧!
測試內容：
請先記下你對每題的答案，T或是F，然後再到最下面計算分數。
1. I never hesitate to go out of my way to help someone in trouble.
2. I have never intensely disliked anyone.
3. There have been times when I was quite jealous of the good fortune of others.
4. I would never think of letting someone else be punished for my wrongdoings.
5. I sometimes feel resentful when I don't get my way.
6. There have been times when I felt like rebelling against people in authority even though I knew they were right.
7. I am always courteous, even to people who are disagreeable.
8. When I don't know something I don't at all mind admitting it.
9. I can remember "playing sick" to get out of something.
10. I am sometimes irritated by people who ask favors of me.
答案：1. (T) 2. (T) 3. (F) 4. (T) 5. (F) 6. (F) 7. (T) 8. (T) 9. (F) 10. (F)
計分方式：答對一題得一分，以粗略的解釋來說，得分越高，越屬於符合社會期待取向，得分越低則反之。
